Does She Like Me? 10+ SureFire Signs

When a boy likes a girl, the first thing that comes to his mind is whether she likes me or not. Girls are not easy to handle because of their sudden mood swings. They have thousands of moods and hide their feelings easily (if they want ). Sometimes a boy and girl are good friends but the boy starts to like her. At the same time, he is hiding his feelings from her friend, because he is frightened that his friend will mind it and get angry. The poor boy wants to know his feelings, he started noticing some signs of whether she also likes him or not. We are here to help these poor guys to know about their girls. So let’s explore “Does she like me”

Surefire Signs “Does She Like Me”

You need to silently find these signs in her and after some time you will be sure enough to know about her feelings.

She is always ready to hang out with you:

She is always ready to go out and make plans with you. No matter if she has her exams coming in, or had a long duty at her office. It does not mean she is being desperate or needy, it is just that she likes to be around you and wants to spend more and more time in your company. Women are more socially intelligent when compared to men. They know how to react to situations.

If she does not know you better or you both are not friends already, then she can say no to the plans (of course in a nice way). If she avoids you and almost always cancels your plans especially. It means she is not into you. It is now up to you to recognize whether she likes hanging out with you or just tries to skip out of the scene.

She laughs at your silly jokes:

Even though she knows that you suck at making good jokes but she loves to listen to your jokes and laugh at them. She does not make fun of it and seems to enjoy even your wittiest humor. Girls find it attractive when a guy is humorous and knows how to make a girl laugh. In humor, you can even convey your feelings to her and can see if she reacts in a positive way or not. It won’t look odd and if you find things getting awkward you can always cover it with another joke. If she makes fun of your jokes and makes you feel that your jokes suck, then probably she is not interested in making you feel all special, and eventually these all sign towards a NO.

She smoothly touches you:

If she likes you, you will note she lightly touches you on your arm while talking to you or while laughing. It doesn’t mean that she is trying to give you physical vibes but this gesture shows that she likes you. According to psychology, It is a subconscious gesture she made to build rapport. To know and confirm whether she likes you or not, you can also observe her reaction by lightly putting your hand on her shoulder or arm (only if she did it first). If she gets back immediately and feels uncomfortable then it means she didn’t appreciate your gesture. If she doesn’t mind it then it shows that she likes you and trusts you.

You both are never tired of talking to each other:

When you both start talking, you can go on and on for hours. You both have lots to talk about and enjoy talking to each other. She listens to your stories attentively and shows interest in whatever you say. She also shares her stories with you and her likes and dislikes and also discusses her personal life with you. This shows that she trusts you and wants you to know all this. This is a clear sign that she likes you. If she listens to your stories but tries to slip out the first opportunity she finds, or she doesn’t open up to you about her personal likings and dislikes then probably she is not interested in you.

Her family and friends know about you even before they met you:

One of the strongest and surest signs she likes you is; that her family and friends already know about you even before you met them. When she introduced you to her family or friends they met you as if they already know you and treated you very well. Made you feel like a special person. Although they didn’t say anything out loud, their actions were quite obvious and they know you without meeting you. If her family doesn’t know about you but her friends do, then this also shows that she told her friends about you. At times girls are not so open to their family members about their feelings and likings but their friends surely know it all. You can judge your image in her friends’ hearts just by talking to them for a while. So if you have doubts about her liking towards you, go meet her friends and family.

She blushes when you are around: 

She blushes when you are around or talks to her. Especially when you compliment her. She immediately tries to fix her dress and hair when you enter the room and she keeps on playing with her hair while talking to you or listening to you. She gets a bit confused and all moving when you are around. All these are the signs indicating she likes you. It matters a lot for her to look good in front of you and to present her best impression. Although these things don’t necessarily happen once you start dating each other but before that, it matters a lot for a girl to appear in the best way for the one she likes. If she doesn’t bother if you are in the room or not and it doesn’t concern her how she looks and sits, then dear she is not into you. It seems she has no intentions to like you “that way” in the long run.

It makes her jealous when you are around other girls:

She gets jealous when she sees you with other girls. She stares at you with tilted eyes and she gets irritated and shows her anger in a hidden way. Like her mood gets off and on asking she replies nothing happened, I am fine. But her angry mood is quite visible. Getting jealous while seeing your crush involved with someone else is natural in both cases whether you are a boy or a girl. So it will be a good idea to test her liking towards you by making her jealous. If it doesn’t bother her that you are talking to a girl or a hundred girls, then she is definitely not interested in you.

She secretly stares at you:

Yes! it’s true She secretly stares at you if she is interested in you. When you enter the room, she finds her way toward you. She sits or stands in a direction where she can easily look at you. If she is a shy person she will avoid making eye contact with you and If she wants you to know that she is interested in you, she will continuously look into your eyes even after making eye contact. You can sense that she is looking at you even without looking at her as you must be looking at her without seeing her (Yes it is a filmy line but it is true). It is up to you now how smart are you to catch her looking? Also, there will be a spark in her eyes when she will look at you. So, don’t confuse her normal stare with special eye contact.

When you are not around she looks for you:

She looks for you and inquires about you when you are late or on leave (whether at the office or in college). She seems to be missing you and keeps on looking at the door as if you will just come in any minute. Obviously, you cannot see or know these things by yourself, your friends or fellow colleagues tell you about all this. She asks you the reason for being late and seems worried about you. All these are the signs that she likes you. If she has no reaction to your absence, then it means that she does not has an interest in you.

She seems interested in knowing if you have a girlfriend:

She keeps on asking personal questions to you as if you have a girlfriend or not. What qualities do you look for in a girl?

 You may find these questions a little pushy but she is asking these questions as she wants to know about your likes and dislikes. Her interest in you, and your personal life, shows that she likes you. If she does not show any interest in whether you have a girlfriend or not or what you like or dislike then it is a sure sign that she does not like you that way.

She “likes” all your activities on social media:

She follows you on all social media platforms and likes all your pictures and status that you put on. Your girl does not necessarily put a “heart” on it because she does not want to seem so obvious and pushy, but always remember to click the like button. Also, leave a nice comment under your pictures. This shows she likes you and wants you to know as well.

She tries to grab your attention all the time:

She tries to grab your attention in one way or other. Sometimes she needs your help with some assignment, or she wants you to drop her at her home, sometimes she asks you to accompany her to the canteen and she calls you by mistake. All these are ways that indicate there is a special corner for you in her heart. These are of course surefire signs of liking especially if it happens often. If she asks for any of the help once or twice and didn’t give you any kind of connection vibes then the help was for genuine reasons and nothing else.

She calls or texts you at night:

When a girl calls or texts at night and with no such important purpose then she is more than a friend to you. She may hesitate or be shy to tell you that she likes you and wants you to guess it by yourself. Or maybe she is fearful of whether you like her or not. In all this confusion. she will keep on playing this hide n seek of feelings and you both will stay single forever. So when she is giving you the obvious signs then go ahead and confess your liking for her. As girls are shy to confess their liking first.



To like someone and then find out that she also likes you, is the best feeling ever. Go and find out if she likes you or not by following these signs. After reading this article you know enough does she like me.

Good luck!