I Have No Life – Why People Say Like This

Some real-life experiences and elaborations are taken on people’s stance, stating that “I have no life”. There Is No Excitement In Life. I have nothing exciting to do in life. When I see it on my calendar, nothing is exciting to count off. Yeah, my birthday comes up once a year, but does your birthday excites you at the age of 27? Who knew growing up could be that maddening and frustrating? When life is not any more delightful, what else do you expect from me except admitting that I have no life?

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Why People Say ” I Have No Life”

Because I Live The Same Life All Year Long. So I have the same routine almost all year long. I am an employee at a well-established bank. My rank is not very high but I earn enough to feed my family. I wake up in the morning, have my breakfast, and leave for work I come back home around 7 pm (as my office is a bit far from my home) and spend some time with my family and go to sleep. I am having this same routine for the past 7 years. Sometimes I feel as if I don’t have any life and the Life of my own. All I do is earn and feed my family. I don’t remember the last time I had time for myself or just don’t have any time to be on my own.

1- I Think I Am A Loser

People around me are getting jobs and are achieving high in life. I was always a dull boy. Never scored good grades in my life and now as I have completed my studies, I still have no job and it’s been a year since I got my degree. I feel like I am just a loser who is never going to achieve anything big in life. For me, it’s like I have no life.

2- I Am Boring

I am boring and I don’t like to party, I don’t like to hang out with my friends. Whenever there is some plan in making I always sneak out from there. I spend time at home, watching TV or movies. This is how I waste my life. I don’t know why but being this way makes me comfortable. But who on earth is happy wasting their precious time like this? I am that unexciting and boring. My friends say that I have no life. Maybe it’s true, they are right. I really do not have a life.

3- I Don’t Have Friends

It’s true and sad also that I don’t have friends. I don’t have people around me, my class fellows. But there is no one whom I may consider my friend. I don’t know if it’s me or others that we don’t get along with. Whenever I try to talk and try to merge in but everyone has developed their groups already and they don’t have any space for a new member or if it’s me that does something wrong that no one is friends with me. I sometimes feel lonely and sad but never let anyone know about what I am going through. After all this loneliness and emptiness I sometimes feel as if I don’t have a life. I am just surviving!

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4- I Feel Alone

To say, there are so many people around me. There are friends, family members, relatives, and neighbors. But I feel alone. I feel lonely. It is that feeling when you are surrounded by several people who are said to be your close ones, but still, you feel like standing alone and empty deep down. Yes, I had a friend very close to me, with whom I used to share all my feelings. Now that friend has moved abroad and I am left alone. I sometimes feel like crying and leaving the gathering but obviously, I can’t. Because that is not what you are supposed to do, it’s against the norms. I then realize that I don’t have left my life. As if my life has ended.

5- I Have No Goals To Pursue

I am still looking for the direction to lead my life in. Sadly, I am in the middle of my engineering degree and still feel as if this is not what I want. The problem is not that I don’t want to be an engineer (maybe) but the real problem is that I don’t know what I want to be. Whatever I think of to choose for a profession, either I feel as it won’t suit me or I end up thinking that I can’t pursue it. Especially after acquiring an engineering degree. Never knew I would be so confused and undirected. A purposeless life is like having no life.

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6- I Do What Others Say

I do or you can say that I follow what others say. What others ask me to do. I don’t have a choice of my own or a say of my own. I am the youngest in my family and have 3 elder brothers. They have always pampered me and have decided everything for me. I never have chosen anything on my own, whether it is a toy. I never felt like having my own choice. Now the problem is that I am always so confused while taking any decision that I always seek someone else’s advice even before buying a shirt for myself. So I don’t think I have a life of my own. I am just a puppet.

7- I Have No Life Because I Am Lost

Since my mother passed away, I am totally lost. I have no direction, I don’t know how to live. Never thought life would be this difficult. People are changing, their behavior is changing, and their relationships are messed up. I just wonder what a mother is to her child. No matter how grown-up is, you will always be a child to your mother. Since the day she has gone I feel as if she has taken away my soul with her. I am finished. A part of me has been ripped off me. And that part was my heart or my soul.

8- My Life Is A Mess

I have been trying to move on since I had my breakup but it’s not easy as I thought it would be. To let go, of someone is not easy. Especially the ones we once had feelings for and you were not the one who wanted to end up the relationship. Right now my life is a mess, I am a mess. I don’t like to go out, meet my friends, and talk to my family. I know it’s not normal and that is why I feel I have lost all interest in life.

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Conclusion

All these stories tell us that every person is fighting their own battle and we should never judge a book by its cover. Because we never know what the other person is going through. Another alarming fact that you can observe in these stories is how some people were at the edge of depression or maybe already suffering from it, but hiding their pain because they know that no one can heal their sorrow. We as individuals need to be more sensitive and caring about the people around us.